Try talking about the way that characters of color are treated across the board in slash-filled fandom spaces sometime.
Try pointing out that while you like slash and have ID’d as a slasher for well over half of your life, sometimes it’d just be nice if characters that look like you weren’t either ignored or portrayed via racist stereotypes in slash fandom.
Try tagging any commentary that even remotely attempts to be critical of the reasons behind why fandom ships the ships they do.
I dare you.
Watch how quickly a space that keeps being touted as a safe one for women quickly becomes unsafe. Watch how quickly your fellow fans treat you like an outsider and ignore any validity in your words because people like you are taking the fun out of fandom.