Salty Ask List


  1. What OTPs in your fandom(s) do you just not get?*
  2. Are there any popular fandom OTPs you only BroTP?*
  3. Have you ever unfollowed someone over a fandom opinion?
  4. Do you have a NoTP in your fandom? Are they a popular OTP?*
  5. Has fandom ever ruined a pairing for you?*
  6. Has fandom ever made you enjoy a pairing you previously hated?*
  7. Is there anything you used to like but can’t stand now?*
  8. Have you received anon hate? What about?*
  9. Most disliked character(s)? Why?
  10. Most disliked arc? Why?
  11. Is there an unpopular character you like that the fandom doesn’t? Why?
  12. Is there an unpopular arc that you like that the fandom doesn’t? Why?
  13. Unpopular opinion about XXX character?
  14. Unpopular opinion about your fandom?
  15. Unpopular opinion about the manga/show?
  16. If you could change anything in the show, what would you change?
  17. Instead of XYZ happening, I would have made ABC happen…
  18. Does not shipping something ‘popular’ mean you’re in denial and/or biased?
  19. What is the one thing you hate most about your fandom?
  20. What is the purest ship in the fandom?
  21. What are your thoughts on crack ships?
  22. Popular character you hate?
  23. Unpopular character you love?
  24. Would you recommend XXX to a friend? Why or why not?
  25. How would you end XXX/Would you change the ending of XXX?
  26. Most shippable character?
  27. Least shippable character?

*several of these questions are taken from a list that was not rebloggable


saying "aroace ppl are basically straight" is in the same vein as saying “the color yellow is basically red bc it’s not blue”



I hate to ask, but my sister and I are $250 short on rent because a check she was expecting didn’t come and might not come until the end of the week (bcuz holiday tomorrow screws up the delivery schedule) and our mom who lives with us and the niecelings isn’t interested in helping us.

If you can toss us a little $ before midnight tonight, it’d be really great!

You all are amazing people! Thank you so much for sharing and donating! You’re really saving me + my sister’s butts because the check was supposed to come but the universe apparently hates us??

Right now we’re at $208.30/$250 with a couple of hours left to go until midnight. I’ve paid the brunt of the rent ($1020 and if necessary I can share the receipt screen shot for that) and will hold off on paying the rest until well… I get the rest so I can pay it in one-shot. 

I will post a screenshot of the receipt for the last bit once it’s paid and refund any donations that I receive after that point.

Also, because I’m truly a goopy mess rn, I’m going to giveaway a digital copy of Moana to one of you darlings once I’m done crying. 

Thank you thank you

It’s DONE! 


I figured most of y’all already know my last name since I’m published in places so I didn’t censor that, but here’s the receipt.)

Thank you all for your help! It was a smidge more expensive because I didn’t know they charged for debit card payments (we pay via bank accounts and it doesn’t have a fee then), but we’re all done! 

Thank you all so much! My sister was straight up in TEARS! 

 Now from here on in, I’m going to be refunding anyone that donates after this fact because I know how sometimes posts take off (but I might fall asleep before I do that so I’ll for sure do it once I wake up). I’ll be updating the other reblogs of the post with this info just in case!

I’ll also pick someone for that digital copy of Moana that I keep in my wallet for emergencies and send them an email about that!

Again, thank you all for having my back and helping my family out. 

Today was really stressful and without y’all, I think we’d be freaking out really badly!


this whole “ppl need to learn how to talk it out in our generation” is stupid as hell. I know how to talk, debate, communicate alla that but if you do something that’s over the top disrespectful I’m not going to fucking talk to you. People don’t owe you shit lol like stop thinking you entitled to shit.

So I am once again feeling complicated feelings about tone policing. On one hand, I will defend your right to say what you want and get a response. Being silenced because you’re too passionate isn’t cool. 

But on the other hand, some responses are difficult to respond to. I personally don’t like being yelled at. I can’t handle it. But because I feel that tone policing is bullshit, does that mean I have to let people say whatever they want to me in order not to be seen as a hypocrite?

replied to your post “There are people in the Star Wars fandom who are notably and vocally…”

Lando/Han > Sana/Han TBH

Bless your heart but:

a) I didn’t ask for your opinion

b) I don’t care about your opinion

c) Your opinion on ships doesn’t matter 

d) It’s not even like fandom treats Lando as anything other than a traitor in the way of Han/Leia or Han/Luke. They’ve literally been mistreating and misrepresenting him for DECADES 

e) If I did care about your opinion, I’d point out that there’s no reason to pit two rare ships involving Black characters fandom hates against each other. 

Good talk, friend. I’m glad we could have it.

replied to your post “There are people in the Star Wars fandom who are notably and vocally…”

black people , not people of color

Bless your little heart, but I’m talking about all the characters of color that have been shown in the star wars franchise and erased or dismissed by its fandom. 

Trust me, when I make posts on the fandom’s antiblack racism, I get specific as hell with that shit. This post was specifically to highlight that no character of color is seen as acceptable or interesting enough to fandom and that fandom is hypocritical when positioning itself against the dudebros in “mainstream” fandom.

Honestly, at the end of the day, everyone involved in recent “coping ship” discourse in fandom loses because they wind up either disclosing their trauma to strangers or dismissing someone else’s in order to gain a leg up or legitimacy for their shipping/criticism.

I made the video but it’s like 2 seconds too long and I don’t feel like fiddling with it now because I’ve been up since like seven o_o